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ON relationships without spoiling our space - "Invasion of space"--->How to overcome it?

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"Invasion of space" might make you assume that am talking about colonial invasion or astronomical stuff which am not intending to.Am willing to share about the space we have in practical life and the invasion of it.We used to go our way in our routines and any other activity that you tend or desperately aim at,but people around you could stand as barrier.Blocking our way might trigger anger,fear and all sorts of emotions in us.The barriers could be parents,sibling,co-worker or the partner.Am not going to support the invader or the hostile of the space,depends on the way and purpose which makes you rationally right i guess. Especially when people arent used to this and when they are made forcefully to go through this,they definitely going to bcome wild,because they already had become handicap of mechanical actions that has no life,thats the routine we end up.To put life in to every action is what makes life worth living,say for example we might be brushing tooth...

On Speeches-Give us the sunshine we deserve....(lets hope we deserve!!)

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Lectures have always fascinated me,right from my childhood,even though there are downside like getting carried away by the pseudo-intellectual stuff,getting bored when we cant make sense out of it.Things are presented in various format like books and others,however i find lectures powerful,as we could easily grab a point quickly on the main stuff by listening to a lecture,instead of beating around the bush on reading a book(books are always full of puzzles, enigmas, and allegories,no direct communication on the key points).Reading is always a lonely and non entertaining activity.Humans always wanted to some human relation thats why there are many call centers,also when information is been told by a lecturer it also adds value by the lecturers charisma,also depth of registering to us also strong by the lecturers voice quality,modulation,structure and the quality of content which is broken simpler with more practical examples and words with humor.Ideally a lecture should be progressi...

ON Awards - Why Aamir Khan refused wax statue of him in London's famous musuem?

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Awards and recognition is the topic would like to bring,especially in a award world(society?) is driven by money,politics,power,business and glamor.Gandhi was never awarded Noble prize and so is Tamil poet Bharathiyar.There are famous recognitions like sir title in Britain and their honoring system,which again we could see some pattern.Padma awards,literary awards are again another big mess.In Tamil literary world,things are more worse,Kandhasan and Abdul Rehman was awarded for his prose(both are poets).People like Salinger never got an award.Writer Sujatha,Pudhumaipithan wasn't given any award at all.And again i also admit there are few award given was well deserved.I don't mind wrong people getting award even though its not good,but prefer deserving people to be in. In film world,you see actors and film people getting doctorate from university,all sorts of response come up.People like Vijaykanth,Vijay,Preity zinta,director Shankar are getting doctorate.Of course actors ...

ON Realisation - you will someday...

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I had always heard your entire life flashes in front when you realise yourself and accept yorrself and the world as it is. First of all, that one second isn't a second at all. It stretches on forever, like an ocean of time.It brought my memory of my first drive of cycle after strugulling to learn,my fathers smell in his chest when he hugged me.When i watched flowers,trees in the road side inspite of pollution,people running for jobs,babies carrying book loads a in a lovely rainy evening..When i cried in the presence of no one and absence of loved one.My grandmother still working hard bursting with energy and happily to cook and serve food to her family,inspite of her action not been recognised which is of 60years hardwork..... It's hard to realise that ive been mad when there's so much beauty in the world.Sometimes I feel like I'm seeing it all at once, and it's too much.My heart fills up like a balloon flying high with freedom and then I remember to relax, and...

ON Mediocrity redemption

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Everybody has felt a low in thought on their life at time on job,family,health and stuffs which injects mediocrity in us.How do brek this?Our hope,urge(to break our inferiority and oppose others who rag our inferiority),comfort on approaching a thing that we could we could get through is the key,which we call confidence.This no fear state could be called as confidence.Our achievements are entirely dependent on this,not IQ.If you feel you get through a book,a difficult person,you make efforts to get through.So,your confidence is your IQ.Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. Thought is matter as much as the floor, the wall, the telephone, are matter. Energy functioning in a pattern becomes matter. That is all life is....Matter and energy are interrelated. The one cannot exist without the other, and the more harmony there is between the two, the more balance, the more active the brain cells are. Thought has set up this pattern of pleasure, pain, fear, and h...

ON Domination - Control

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I wonder why we are violent,aggressive in controlling others.Where all its spread out?Parents on their child,teachers ont their students,bosses on their sub ordinates,husbands on their wives.The controllers justification is that when we give freedom or let them have their own thoughts and implement ,they take advantage and overtake them.Can we genuinely control people?Almost all people,sorry no people are genuinely controlled.They only act,pretend,fake by their expression,body language words by their fake words in fame of controller.But yet we demand them to act in the favour of us.(controller).Because the controllers position let them demand others to do so.This is conditioned,i give you this and protect and you act as per my control.Then whats the right way to live?ontrolling essentially is for selfish gain by exploitation.Controlling is a politics run by irrational humans,whose presence would give us the feeling of gutter.They are the most under confident,fearful,talentless peop...

Bosses

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Whats the essential ingredient that makes the chemistry flourish between boss and subordinate.Its satifying him.Whats the expectation of a boss,its to do actions and give expression in such a way to make sure that boss is always in control of you,which gives him him security of his position.Security is a emotional thirst born out of lazyness,its an greed not knowing the limitation of his current role.The emotional state of Secured,is the result of not wanting to confront every moments by thinking hard and getting through it.Want to make that secured state of thought always in place,thats also not knowing no limitation.That security indeed becomes stronger when the suffering of others increases,which is a tendency of human thought ,its an optional possible thought process.So they enjoying seeing others suffer.Every human has that tendency,which can be possibly cleared or stabilised by a rational stand.Whats the duty of a boss: 1)To find fault.(crtic) 2)To correct them.(Teacher) 3)To...

ON Education System - School,college genuises

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Am not going to straight away attack on the school,college system.My point is that text book prescribed in the school,college courses contain chosen information,which indeed is the intellectual output (as a result of finding the truth or to understand ) of a specific individual.The chosen topics are sticking to a field,and those were chosen by some superficial intellectual egoistic show of educators.To produce the information in exam to get so called marks we follow all sorts of shortcuts like memorizing,tuition classes and stuffs.This system doesn't guarantee a persons intellectuals capacity ,nor it improves unless he studies them understanding and able to give a holistic approach to evolve those information to next level.By now internet has already revolutionized education and also in future in drastic ways, but then online there is dehumanization and also there is classroom interaction amongst students and 1-1 relation with teacher is missed.Also in school they miss to teach ...

ON Parenting-The factor of recognition and importance to child

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Recognition and importance will change your life forever.This has to be be done to the maximum until a child is 21 years of age  as its duty of the parents to do so.Recognition and importance means not fake and artificial fame or adoring or indulge instead its genuine reflection out of the array of contents a child displays on what he is and what good it is honestly ,sincerely and act/ respect to your child ,accordingly which will change his core of personality as confident, self made and standalone survivor until his death. Not namesake superficial food,shelter,pocket money, education,marriage given by parents matters.You do 1000 mantras to god in praise just be one to your child.This is what which enables the child to make and buy food for himself, clean his house and keep things intact, take care of health, find and retain his girl, be good to people, study his education, love himself, make him confident, do his works,be responsible on every little and big things of lif...