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ON Confidence - Confidence in Belief and the Belief of Confidence...

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I wanted to discuss the most commonly used terms in the walks of life of a common man.Following are the few: Analogy Hypothetical Apparently or obviosuly Landline However the most common one is confidence and belief.I wanna discuss about them. The belief is the most hyped word in my life which i am exposed to.That too its been quiet often associated when we are upon religion.I do not intend to attack specific or all releigion (hoping its because not of fear) as i find no issues with it,expect for the fact sometimes the advocates demands or force or expect us to accept or acknoledge or believe they are the ones who are always right.As i only see religion as an honest man said as below , Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You'll learn from them — if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It'

ON European movies and Best acting ranking for me

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 Best acting Performance by Lead Actor Actor name Movie 1 Charlie Chaplin Modern Times 2 Kevin Spacey American beauty 3 Marlon Brando The Godfather 4 Sivaji Ganesan Thiruvarutchelvar & vietnam veedu 5 Anthony Perkins Psycho 6 Alpacino Scarface 7 Tom Hanks Forrest gump 8 James Stewart The Rope 9 Eli Wallah Good,Bad,Ugly 10 Edward Norton American History X 11 Tom Cruise Rainman 12 Laurence oliver A little romance 13 Dustin Hoffman Rain man 14 Sean Penn 21 grams 15 Kamal Haasan Anbe Sivam 16 Nagesh Thiruvilayadal 17 Peter Sellers Dr.Strangelove 18 Orson Welles Citizine Kane ======================================================================== European movies are slow and boring?(Example Italian movie La Notte) =============================================== I dont know why a single feeling or theme is dragged in a movie emotionally,where it is very slow paced,with no interesting ingredients in the story are considered good,thoughtful intellectual m

ON REVENGE

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This is really a story kind of or filmy word, yet the writeup is done a lighter way inspired from the quote on a movie as below(not directly linked just inspired):  "Revenge is a dish best served cold." I really wanted to know why do we feel like taking revenge.To me revenge is nothing but giving back the same amount of of pain as he suffered to the opponent. When somebody hurts and provokes our revenge it means we have felt sense of somebody being better then us.Why are we not feeling not comfortable by letting other person better then us?Its because we have this thing called selfishness or ego which feels its sense of existence only by better then others.As a result it never likes letting somebody to be better then us,so we become restless and neurotic until we get back our sense of existence by taking revenge and feeling better then the person.We feel our sense of existence only in relationships,occupation and sometimes in hobby,rest of the time we suffer in not fe

ON Virtue of Selfishness

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During my graduation final year,one of my friend in the class applied for PG in some college.But he never shared that information to me.The way i understood this is that there is selfishness in my friend.Selfishness is the result of competition.To me selfishness and competition goes together.In simple words,Selfishness is not letting others to come up.Logically,Im no way his competitor even if i get into the college with him.But why are we going crazy in the name of competition.If somebody is better then us why are we pissed of,it means we lack self belief and no clarity on what we want. To take care of ourself is normal and obvious,becz we are responsible for being ourself,we are answerable for being ourself to others.To take care of our ealth,appearance,profession,family is something very reasonable and unquestionable.But why do we get obssessed,get stuck in the disease of smartness and remain in thought restless,peaceless,happyless. We are goin to loose all relationship due to

ON FEAR

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Once we hear this subject fear,we shouldn’t underestimate this to be psychological thing because fear is an important state of mind which pollutes us with hastyness,lack of concentration,escaping present moment.After all mind is the only tool we have all our life to operate.We can operate this tool better,only by controlling fear.The fear im talking about has nothing to do with running away when animal attacks us or protecting ourself from fire,these are all pretty logical and normal.Our mind is been facilitated to handle this kind of threatening by secreting a thing called amygdale.The responsibility of amygdale is to create fight or flight response,that is it helps us in giving extraordinary energy and power to fight the danger.But the fear im talking about is concretely divorced from any genuine danger.This fear happens when we go to an interview,or when we compare ourself with others or compare ourself on how we are and how we should be.Even in this fear amygdale is secreted ir