ON Jealousy


Recently i went to a marriage and i was observing people how interested,attached,truthful on their wishes to the couple. I was shocked to see how formal,pretending people are,as well as i saw many actors better then Amitab Bachan,Sivaji Ganesan and Marlon Brando.Not only in wedding,i have observed this kind of attitude in different functions,where people feel uncomfortable in well being or success of others.In simple words,Why are we jealous? Jealousy indicates the intensity of craving,it means you feel somebody is better then you.As per the rule of ego or selfishness,it never lets others be better then you because we feel our sense of existence only by being better then others.Jealousy is just another form of self pity.Essentially comparison is the thing,which leads to jealousy. So why do we compare?We compare to ensure we are better then somebody and secure. Ego seeks it's existence only by being better then others. So here we go ,we found out the reason. But once again we can raise the question why we seek our existence by being better then others. IT IS BECAUSE WE DON'T KNOW WHAT WE WANT. So it's very important to know what we want. To create a healthy society with love,humanity,happiness we have to know us. We are the result of this world and world is the result of us,so by knowing us, we know the world.So let us know the world!!

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